Momma
This weekend I began the work of reclaiming one of the boys’ bedrooms. Up until this point, it was a time capsule of sorts, mostly holding clothes that he outgrew (physically or stylistically). But also a few gems that either he or his parents will want to hang onto for a while longer.
The fleece blanket with the Periodic Table of the Elements on it. His strength in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering & Math) was encouraged early in life. His sketchpads. (He was really a STEAM kid (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Math)).
A painting my mom made, just for him. Still hanging on the wall. A pig atop a sheep, which was itself atop a cow. The sheep saying “dis is driving me crazy” - something the lad once said when Mimu was caring for him. Creativity, layered with practiced skill, layered with family history all in one piece of art.
We have so many great totems - physical objects created by my parents, that carry so much meaning. Furniture that my father built, and my mother applied the finish. Paintings done by mom. It’s impossible not to think of them often when opening a door or a drawer on one of their many creations.
Beyond the physical reminders of Mom, her spirit lives on in my children, without a doubt. The care that she and Dad gave them in their early years, and the time we were able to spend with her in her final years really mattered to their development.
The room will look and feel different when my office occupies this space. But that picture will still be hanging there. I’m wishing a happy Mother's Day to all the moms today. May they all leave such a positive, enduring mark as my mom was able to leave.
Sunday Supper
Sheet-pan Miso Chicken w/ Radishes & Lime
Mean Green Salad w/ Tahini Miso Dressing
Sunday Music
Vinyl Live House Set by Lulú Matheou
Enjoy!
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Have a great week ahead! You can do anything you set your mind to. Let me know how I can help.
Peace & Love,