We Rhyme

We are different. But sometimes when you look in the mirror, you’re going to see me. You’re going to make different choices than I did, and that is proper. We are different people, living in different times.

Some of your wiring, your “mental map” as I call it, got connected incorrectly, through no fault of anyone. The fact is that some mis-wired connections are made during childhood because children can’t process things very well. We all learn “lessons” that are just plain wrong. So you will have some work to do, to scan your wiring and correct for these things.

I made mistakes, too. Despite my best efforts, I probably taught you some things that are wrong, or at least unhelpful. Hopefully this didn’t stick. But you should look out to correct for these mistakes as well.

Though your central core is beautiful and constant, much of the rest of your “firmware” can be updated. You can update yourself. The work of getting to know yourself, and consciously making changes is ongoing. Through fifty-six years so far, I see no end to it.

Who you are is not who you will be. Life changes us. Always for the better, if you choose. Resentment is dead weight. Blaming others, pointless. Owning every cubic inch of your self and your experiences will ensure that you keep getting better.

Of this I am certain: You are capable of far more than you will probably ever ask of yourself. We all are. The vast majority of us dream smaller than our capacity. This is fine. Only stretch for the things that light you up. Just know that everything you will ever need is inside of you already. Accessing it is fun. Trust yourself. You win, or you learn. Don’t beat yourself up. It takes a while to figure things out and get them right.

You are you, and I am me. But every apple falls close to the tree. Your genes will rustle up some ghosts. Let your light shine, everything will be fine. The past won’t repeat itself, but it will rhyme.

Sunday Supper

This year, I’m thinking of the Father’s Day meals I enjoyed when my dad was alive. Simple Grilled Steak, with the Ultimate Baked Potato and a Massive Italian salad. These Homemade Fudgsicles make for a sweet finish.

Sunday Music

The Doobie Brothers’ 50th Anniversary performance at Radio City Music is worth a listen. This John Scofield-led trio from 2023 is wonderful as well. Enjoy!

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Have a great week ahead!  You can do anything you set your mind to. Let me know how I can help.


Peace & Love,